All these hadith can be refuted by other hadith saying kill everyone unless they accept islam etc.
All semi or name only muslims can find a hadith to justify their false beliefs or practices resulting in , for example, making the innocent women and children of your enemy guilty by association and hence justification for their killing.
If you stick with the Quran you will find no contradictions within its pages and the only things contradicting it are the hadith.
So why not stick with the Quran?