You wrote: “Allah does not beget, but if Mary had a child without a husband then Allah made Jesus happen, Allah begot Jesus.”
LoL* 1M, you joined Millions if not Billions of non-Muslims to have the same erroneous concept God devoted many many verses to debunk. As per your illogic, God created Adam without mom/dad, thus God is both father and mother. Then He created a female from Adam, thus, He is a Mom now, then Essa without father.... Nonsense upon nonsense.
You wrote: “As Allah said 'be' He foresaw that Mary would marry and have Jesus. When He says 'be' He knows it will happen, it is not a miraculous event. Both verses understood this way compliment, not contradict each other.”
First part of your statement is indeed true in which God said “Be”, remaining part, “…He foresaw that Mary would marry and have Jesus” is your error. Bring me a verse please to back up your claim, else please stop mounting the verses of God with your misunderstanding.
You wrote: “When Allah said 'be' and the universe came into existence, did every star, planet, animal, plant come into being in their completed form or did they undergo a process of development, 'creation, evolution? As Quran confirms development, then you you must likewise see the natural coming into existence of Jesus, not a fatherless one!”
This is called bringing God to our level. Did God say, Jesus was born instantly? Rather, God is at pain to explain verse after verse how Jesus was conceived, developed, and delivered.
To cut this discussion short, just one question:
Quote just one verse related to the Jesus and Mary in which God may have just alluded her having a husband?