“shall i suffer and others maintain their life style with these cheating or i can also cheat, bribe at times, offcourse only Allah knows it but not others, considering i have family too parents, wife and a child where it is much beneficial than being suffered.”
While you are at it, eat pork, worship idols, drink alcohol, ‘fool around’ and bury your newborn daughters alive. We must all stand up and be counted on Judgement Day according to what we did in life, so stay as close as possible on the straight path and develop your nafs by avoiding the sins of others. Nothing that corrupts will be beneficial to you, which may not be apparent straight away but one day it will catch up with you. Punishment in the hereafter is much worse than the man made suffering here, so you decide!