As a healing spiritual psychologist i have worked with several gays and provided councelling to them. I wish to bring a point here that no one is born "gay" and this condition is not genetic. It is totally learned "mechanical" conditioning which stems from emotions which have tangled up and giving wrong messages to the individual.
Emotions works much faster than the intellectual. So condemning someone that you are "gay" or "fag" wont help much. This problem has to be rooted out from the Emotional centre.
The most common reasons that "gayism" is growing is:
1. Kids beings taken advantage: Most of the gays were taken advantage in school or home. Thats trauma for the young mind. I would like to point out as long as this trauma is not healed by councelling we cant make any progress. We have to change ourself before the outer circumstances can change for us.
2. Father being absent: The father being absent during the growing period (1 - 7 yrs). The kid is attached to the mother and doent know anything about the male polarity.
3. Broken families
4. Childhood trauma
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Nothing is going to be achieved by condemning them. Many have left this path to become celibates and others have successfully entered a heterosexual relation.
So friends if you know somebody who is gay try to councel them and dont use words such as "You are going to Hell" or "We are ashamed of you". Guilt and resentment has never helped anyone.
As the trauma and emotions are healed they will naturally be able to see the right path.