i think sometimes we already know the answer. We only need support, trust and the courage to take action.
2:216 Fighting is ordained for you, even though it is hateful to you. But it may happen that you hate a thing that is good for you, and it may happen that you love a thing that is bad for you. God knows and you know not.
Loving a woman is one of the best things that can occur to a man.
7:189 (The message encompasses life in its totality.) Recall that God created life from a single life cell, then made male and female cells, and then shaped you into human beings, males and females. He designed it such that man might incline with love towards the woman. When he gets intimate with her, she carries a light load that she can hardly notice. As she grows heavy with the child, they both implore God, their Lord, “If you grant us a healthy baby, we shall certainly be among the grateful.”
But love is not enough. We also need strategy and plan. We need a firm character and a benevolent heart. We need a seeking mind. We need time. We need to follow the straight path and try to stay on it to the best of our abilities.
We need to learn to forgive. We need to learn to let go. We need to learn to love and to live. We should prepare ourselves for a better life with a better quality. :-)