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The Divorce Procedure
By:*Dr. Shabbir, Florida
Date: Thursday, 23 February 2012, 4:53 pm

THE DIVORCE PROCEDURE

Muslims in general get confused at the hands of Mullahs, the so-called Ulama. The obvious reason is their abandonment of the Book of Allah. Here is the clear, Ultimate Qur’anic Guidance.

THERE IS NO DIVORCE UNDER DURESS
The Qur’an gives some very important and clear Laws for divorce. 2:228 (The couple may reconcile even during ‘Iddah = Waiting period before the wife’s remarriage), 4:6 (Both must be able to understand their finances before marriage), 4:19 (No such thing as Khula’! Women have the right to divorce as well. Both must be able to grant free consent), 4:35 (Marriage is a very solemn, legal contract. Two wise arbiters must try to reconcile between the husband and wife for three months), 58:1-3 (Foolish utterances do not count), 65:1-4 (Never expel divorced women from THEIR homes. Their must be two witnesses in writing for divorce).

NO ROOM FOR INSTANT DIVORCE: According to the Qur’an, there is absolutely no room for an instant divorce. The process must take months with involvement of arbiters in order to allow reconciliation between the husband and wife.

THE QUR’AN DISREGARDED: It is highly unfortunate and shameful that Muslim jurists have been ignoring and practically revoking these clear verses of the Book of Allah for centuries, in favor of their own conjecture. According to their exploitative and erroneous edicts, if a husband utters the word "Divorce" three times in anger or under any kind of duress or even in a stage drama or movie, divorce takes effect instantly. What a mockery of the Qur’an! They are then decrared unlawful for each other and anyone eating or drinking in their homes commits Haraam!

THE SOMERSAULT: It is interesting to note that the so called Fuqaha (Jurist Mullahs) who otherwise uphold Hadith in preference to the Word of Allah, conveniently disregard even their 'treasure' whenever it suits their whims or purpose. In this instance, there is a Hadith in Ibn Majah. The exalted Prophet is reported to have said, La talaqa fil Ighlaq = There is absolutely no divorce under any kind of duress, coercion, suddenness, anger etc. This Hadith which is in total harmony with the Qur’an remains obscure to or hidden by the Ulama.

HOMES BELONG TO WOMEN: 65:1 O Prophet! When you men intend to divorce women, make sure that the waiting period is observed. Keep precise account of this interim period. Be mindful of Allah, your Lord. Never expel them from THEIR homes, nor shall they themselves leave their homes unless they commit open immorality. ----.

TWO WITNESSES FOR DIVORCE, 65:2 And so, when they have reached their waiting term, either retain them in kindness or part with them in kindness. And let there be two just persons among you to witness, and establish the evidence straight for Allah. -----.
ARBITERS: Three months of attempts to effect reconciliation by arbiters is one of the pre-requisites for divorce. 4:35 (Families and communities must adopt a proactive approach regarding a husband and a wife in discord). If you fear a breach between a husband and wife, appoint two arbiters, one from his family and one from her family. If they decide to reconcile, Allah will help them get together. Verily, Allah is Knower, Aware.

THE ENTIRE DIVORCE PROCEDURE ALLOWED TWICE IN A LIFETIME:
2:229 In a given couple's lifetime, a divorce is permissible twice. (The whole period of divorce i.e. three menstruations / three months, or until delivery can be taken back twice). ------.
HALAALAH OR HARAAMAH? Here comes the most shameful deed unique to the Mullahs in the whole world. They maintain that for reconciliation, the senselessly divorced woman has to go through Halaalah (planned marriage with another man for one night followed by divorce in the morning. And it must involve sexual intercourse!). Mullahs offer their own "Noble Services" for being the bridegroom for one night and even charge a hefty fee for it! "Authorized" Halaalah offices abound in many so-called Muslim countries!

2:230 If a man divorces his wife on a third different time during their marital life, it shall be unlawful for him to remarry her. It may so happen that the woman marries another man, and those two do not get along, and the other husband divorces her. In that case, there is nothing wrong if both (the previous couple) decide to come together again, if they consider that they will be able to observe the Limits set by Allah. These Limits have been made clear for people to make use of the Divine gift of knowledge (and make no crookedness in the Straight Path). [There is no room in the Qur’an for the so-called ‘Halalah’, a shameful, manmade custom where a divorced woman is made to spend an intimate night with another man under wedlock with a preplanned divorce in the morning! I call it ‘Haramah’]

THERE IS NO ROOM FOR KHULA’: The word Khula' does not appear in the Qur’an. It is an Imamist fabrication meaning that a woman seeking divorce has to go to a court of law begging for it, a process that takes upto 30 years in the "Muslim" societies).
4:19 O You who have chosen to be graced with belief! It is not lawful for you to force women into marrying or holding on to them in marriage against their will. ------.

'IDDAH, THE WAITING PERIOD FOR WOMEN TO REMARRY
1 - No waiting if untouched. (33:49)
2 - Three menstrual periods in women with normal physiology. (2:228)
3 - Three months for those who do not habitually menstruate (or have irregular cycles – 65:4).
4 - Four months ten days for a widow (for resolution of grief – 2:234).

2:228 After divorce, women shall wait three menstruations before remarriage. There is no waiting period for a woman who is divorced before intimate relations with her husband (33:49). And it is three months if they do not habitually menstruate (65:4). They shall not conceal pregnancy if they believe in Allah and in the Hereafter. In case of pregnancy, their waiting period shall be until delivery (65:4). And during this period their husbands would do better to take them back if both of them desire reconciliation. The husband and the wife have the right to reconcile during this waiting period of the wife. Women, by Ordinance, have rights similar to men. Men, however, do not have a waiting period for remarriage for obvious physiological reasons. That is where men are on a platform different from them. (2:228-234, 4:3, 4:19, 4:35, 4:128, 33:49, 58:1, 65:1-4). The Waiting Period is four months ten days for widows. (2:234) Those among you who die and leave wives behind, they shall wait four months and ten days before they remarry. ---.

WOMEN NOT TO BE HOME-BOUND DURING WAITING PERIOD: The Qur’an places only one restriction, remarriage. But under the "Imamist" influence a divorced Muslim woman or widow is expected to live a life of complete asceticism and deprivation during the Waiting Period. She is told not to leave her home, see any visitors, participate in any ceremonies, socialize in any form, dress decently, wear new clothes, comb well, use perfumes or use even light make-up, etc.

CONCEALING AHADITH

Our Mullahs are adept at concealing any Ahadith that could make life easy for their victims. For example:

1. The exalted Messenger reportedly said, "Nasharah (the pretense of expelling demons) is nothing but Satan's handiwork." But the Mullahs make money by beating up and torturing patients with mental illness, after ‘diagnosing’ demon-possession.

2. La ghoul. (There is no such thing as ghoul, demon, witch, evil eye and creatures of superstition.)

3. “La Talaqa fil Ighlaq.” (There is no divorce under duress, pressure, or suddenness.) Halaalah or Haramah: Here comes the most shameful deed unique to the Mullahs in the whole world. They maintain that for reconciliation, the senselessly divorced woman has to go through Halaalah (planned marriage with another man for one night followed by divorce in the morning. And it must involve sexual intercourse!). Mullahs offer their own "Noble Services" for being the bridegroom for one night and even charge a hefty fee for it! "Authorized" Halaalah offices abound in many so-called Muslim countries!

4. The Hadith lovers even discard their beloved Bukhari here, “Sahaba Kiraam asked the Prophet, "People bring us meat and we do not know if Allah's name has been mentioned on it." The Prophet replied, "Say BISMILLAH and eat it." Why do they conceal this Hadith? So that they may support the ‘Halaal meat industry’, exercise religious power over people as to what is Halaal and what is Haraam, and get paid for ‘Islamic’ way of slaughtering.

5. “Land belongs to him who cultivates it.” But the ‘Islamic’ clergy strongly supports feudalism where the rich landlords thrive on the toil of poor farmers.

And much more.