This is the true art of presenting a topic through an angle, which makes the reader reflect and hold his/her own opinion. If we can not reflect over sudden consequence as misyaar or mutah then our ummah is doomed. There are gray zones in Islam. Nevertheless, social, moral and personal ethics should also determine how we regard various issues. Thanks for inspiration. Jazak Allah.
No brother, ex, father or uncle would ever advice misyaar/muta for their female relatives. A tongue can never be controlled. A girl's reputation is all, she has until she is given away with consent of family.
I wish to share my favorite book:"Enjoy your life." It is based upon +20 years of research of the life of Prophet Muhammed (pbuh). It is best to have the sweet (halal & rewards) of both worlds.