I know a Khan “uncle”, a lovely old man who was the son of local landlord who was shot dead by some cousins for being too “popular”. What he has said about his own people is not printable in the West, let alone the East. He said the language spoken in hell will be/is Pashto.
When he heard I had married a fair maiden from Peshawar [not even Pathaan, but close enough], he said to keep a gun beside me, ‘these women are mad’.
He avenged his father’s murder with an AK47, so I agree with him over everything!