Yes I understand that, Bhai I'm not a Mullah and you should not take everyone for granted. Muslims have been showing a lot of "ignorance" in understanding the commandments of the Quran in past. The verses were revealed "according" to the particular situation Prophet Muhammad SAW was facing.Since we are not living with him now , we can't "feel" the verse as it is. When Muslims of past tried to take the help of Hadith to understand the Ah-kamaat of the Quran , they turned and twisted the facts to accomodate their own motives. That's the only reason that Islam became the water in a well. Now is the age of exposure and competitions.Many Scholars are trying to take Islam out of the well.That's the true picture of Islam which is not touched by the "human viles".
Yes! Allah encouraged reconcile for a married couple,to it's maximum, then gave an option of seperation, and then has made it difficult to rejoin, since it's not a "child's play". May Allah give us all the tru understanding of Islam. Ameen.