Dear Laila, if I was to base my belief on what majority is saying I would not have even bothered to read Dr. Shabbir nor Allama Parvez who was declared .... by shurra much bigger than this :)
I don't want to argue with anyone. If one is bend on denying something on base of what some people decided (majority I bet of those were men!) and not Quran itself then be it.
But please DO NOT change what's writen in Quran. And please correct your understanding verse 3 of An Nisa starts with "WA". I bet you know what it means.