4:3 begins with IN KHIFTUM ....... If you fear that you will not be able to do justice with yatama (widows and orphans, then do this .....)
So the second wife will be allowed in emergent circumstances, whether war or any disaster, where many more men lose their lives than women.
I think QXP is the only rendition of the Qur'an that was done in full public view on this very forum (2001-2003). Then it was reviewed and certified on a weekly basis by an extremely competent SHURA of highly knowledgeable men and women.
Dear Sister, were you watching the process that included mutual discussions as well?