A few relevant verses (ash-aar) , continuation of the same poem unger the topic,"The long Journey" came to mind which relate the basic view-point regarding this and some other topics under discussion.
again these verses are not gender-based, and only represent a 'Human /Muslim'
(as it was not possible to use 'ho gaiee' for many aspects referred in the poem)
Duniya ka Ilm jaana , samjha na apna deen*
Ab sumjha kaisay zehen yeh veeraan ho gaya
My mind remained dark/deluded due to the obsession of worldly but lack of religious knowledge.
Allah ka Ehsaan tha ,ya husn e amal o khoo
'Saadiq', 'Ameen' ,"Khulqu hul Qur-aan" ho gaya
Should it only be regarded as the blessing of Allah or Our Prophet Muhammad .s.a.w. who was called, Saadiq (Truthful) and Ameen(Honest), really deserved to become a TRUE HUMAN EXAMPLE OF THE TEACHING OF QURAN!!!!!!!!!