Salaam dear Brother,
you are fighting a loosing battle against them, what they do not understand is GREED AND IGNORANCE, you will never convince them. I have exporienced hatred and give love and understanding, love and respect paid dividends.
I am sure they do not know what is like not to have any food to eat, no father, having to steal milk bottles to buy food, steal fruit and sell scrap to eat. I hope and pray Allah that one day they will learn to live in peace.
My brother was put in jail for 3 years for refusing to join the Italian army, he was prepared to stay in jail for the rest of his life instead of having to kill innocents peoples, if we all refuse to join the army then the politician would have to fight their own war (this will never happen).
My warm friendly regard to you