I'm so sorry if I affended any one for not clearly writting my post that was not what I meant. My point was that men and women are equall in Islam, so when a
man bring another wife, the society always make the first wife to stay, compromise and suffer, and make it easy for a man to abuse that way, but why the society wouldn't help a woman to
left her husband if she doesn't want to stay and make it difficult for her to leave him. It should goes both way.