Salaam to you and your family,
I feel very sorry for what you and your family have been subjected by “evil inclinations”. My family and I have also been subjected to “evil inclinations” I have lost my father in WW2, lost my Uncle in WW2, and one in WW1, my cousin Nazario Sauro (considered one of the main Italian Hero)was hung by the Austrian in WW1, I was in Jaipur (India) and lived at the time that …. Some “Muslim” group killed close to 100 innocents peoples. I have been in most part of this planet and in my view the devil and satan exist, perhaps not in a physical form.
Whenever I notice a nice looking girl it is my normal reaction to think what I would like to do with her, I am a male and if I did not have that instinct, then I am certain that it would be something wrong with me.
I do believe that the answers rest with promoting Islam by trying to follow what many other religious entities have been doing like helping the poor with food, clothing, education, counselling and some many other kind of social works. I spend most of my spare time with a Roman Catholic group in Italy, they know that I am a Muslim and they have no problem with that. A lot of Moslems use the services provided by the Christian churches because WE ARE NOT ORGANISED LIKE MOST OTHER GROUPS (Just think of the Salvation’s Army as an example).
I have no inclinations to follow any kind of terrorist activity, but as it is mentioned in the Book and as a male it is my duty to protect my family.
I thank you for your response.