A middle east Muslim “scholar” explained that if a man found his wife committing adultery and he killed her on the spot, he would not be accused of murder (and hence the death sentence) but manslaughter (so blood money could be paid and he would be free). However, if the wife found her husband with another woman, she should not kill him since she does not know if this was his second wife!
If men are increasingly asking for virgin test certificates, then every woman should insist on a polygraph test (lie detector test, although not 100% effective), to ascertain the “purity” of her future husband. If this works, two things will happen, the women’s test will not be insisted upon, and men will behave themselves. As to the latter, I think I am drifting off into my utopian world again!