How come Allah is not a name? She is right, according to Muslim faith, it is the proper name of God. Don't try to artificially break it. You need to read Koran, Hadees, Syed Qutb, Haikal, Sir Syed, Afghani, Iqbal, Dr Fazlur Rahman.
Prove to me that Abdun Nur is a name, that Badar is a name.
I can handle many more crazies, not just the two of you.